De\u015fi exist\u0103 suficiente motive pentru ca oamenilor s\u0103 le fie fric\u0103 s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 \u00een public – spune Berkun – “p\u00e2n\u0103 n-o s\u0103 v\u0103d pe cineva fugind de la pupitru \u00een toiul prezent\u0103rii \u015fi n\u0103spustindu-se spre ie\u015firea de serviciu ca s\u0103 scape cu via\u0163\u0103, n-a s\u0103 pot spune c\u0103 vorbitul \u00een public este mai \u00eenfrico\u015f\u0103tor dec\u00e2t moartea!”. Acesta este stilul \u00een care ni se adreseaz\u0103 autorul pe tot parcursul c\u0103r\u0163ii: oral, lipsit de morg\u0103, cu vibr\u0103ri ironice \u015fi \u00eendemnuri stenice. El \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 ordine \u015fi s\u0103 ne exileze prejudec\u0103\u0163ile legate de oratorie \u00een zona care le este h\u0103r\u0103zit\u0103: debaraua memoriei. Potrivit unei liste cu cele mai mari temeri omene\u015fti (“The Book of Lists”, de David Wallenchinsky, 1977), vorbitul \u00een fa\u0163a unui grup apare pe primul loc, \u00eenainte spaimei de \u00een\u0103l\u0163imi, de g\u00e2ndaci, de probleme financiare sau chiar de moarte.<\/p>\n
A\u015fa \u00eenc\u00e2t Berkun ne explic\u0103 pe-ndelete cum s\u0103 ne gestion\u0103m frica \u015fi reac\u0163iile la stress, cum s\u0103 ne concentr\u0103m eficient \u015fi cum s\u0103 anticip\u0103m succesul \u00een loc s\u0103 ne l\u0103s\u0103m zdrobi\u0163i de groaza de e\u015fec. Cum, \u00een timpul unui discurs, exist\u0103 multe variabile care nu pot fi prev\u0103zute (\u015fi care duc la anxiet\u0103\u0163i scuzabile), se cuvine s\u0103 planific\u0103m c\u00e2t mai mult \u015fi s\u0103 \u0163inem sub control acel factori care depind de noi. Adic\u0103, \u00eentre altele, s\u0103 ne adecv\u0103m publicului (care este de fiecare dat\u0103 altfel) \u015fi reac\u0163iilor sale, s\u0103 implic\u0103m pe c\u00e2t posibil auditoriul, s\u0103 g\u0103sim ritmul potrivit (\u015fi s\u0103-l schimb\u0103m din mers dac\u0103 e cazul), s\u0103 exers\u0103m brevilocven\u0163a (pentru c\u0103 publicul are tendin\u0163a de a se plictisi). \u015ei, mai ales, s\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegem c\u0103 nu suntem perfec\u0163i \u015fi c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 evit\u0103m gre\u015feala de a \u00eencerca s\u0103 nu facem nicio gre\u015feal\u0103.
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\nScott Berkun, “Confesiunile unui vorbitor public”, Editura Publica. Bucure\u015fti, 2012<\/u><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Scott Berkun \u015fi-a sintetizat vasta experien\u0163\u0103 de orator \u00eentr-un volum despre capcanele vorbitului \u00een public, despre spaimele confrunt\u0103rii cu o sal\u0103 plin\u0103 de oameni, despre mizeriile \u015fi momentele \u00een\u0103l\u0163\u0103toare pe care exerci\u0163iul expunerilor orale le presupune. \u015ei, desigur, despre micile-mari trucuri care v\u0103 pot elibera de trac \u015fi de “b\u00e2lbe”, despre tehnicile de a v\u0103 convinge auditoriul de juste\u0163ea lucrurilor pe care le povesti\u0163i.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7194],"tags":[7193,29108,356,21528,29106,20403,29107,29105],"class_list":["post-57291","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-carte","tag-carte","tag-confesiunile-unui-vorbitor-public","tag-discurs","tag-editura-publica","tag-oratorie","tag-psihologie","tag-scott-berkun","tag-vorbit-in-public"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57291","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=57291"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57291\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":73537,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57291\/revisions\/73537"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=57291"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=57291"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=57291"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}