{"id":234321,"date":"2025-02-20T11:29:07","date_gmt":"2025-02-20T11:29:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/?p=234321"},"modified":"2025-02-20T11:29:07","modified_gmt":"2025-02-20T11:29:07","slug":"harry-meintassis-partener-meintassis-partners-calatoria-este-recompensa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/?p=234321","title":{"rendered":"Harry Meintassis, Partener, Meintassis Partners: C\u0103l\u0103toria este recompensa"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<p>\nDorin\u0163a de a reu\u015fi este fundamental\u0103 pentru natura uman\u0103. Am fost \u00eenv\u0103\u0163a\u0163i c\u0103, pentru a avea succes, trebuie s\u0103 ne for\u0163\u0103m, s\u0103 ne impunem mereu controlul. Dar exist\u0103 \u015fi o alt\u0103 cale\u2026 \u00cen filosofia oriental\u0103 a dao-ului (Calea), se vorbe\u015fte despre \u201eac\u0163iunea f\u0103r\u0103 efort\u201d (wu-wei) \u2013 adic\u0103 \u201ea ac\u0163iona f\u0103r\u0103 a for\u0163a, a te mi\u015fca \u00een armonie cu cursul natural al lucrurilor\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>\nDe ce este important acest lucru pentru lideri?<\/p>\n<p>\nS\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegem paradoxul succesului.<\/p>\n<p>\nCu c\u00e2t for\u0163\u0103m mai mult lucrurile, cu at\u00e2t cre\u0103m mai mult\u0103 \u201erezisten\u0163\u0103\u201d. \u00cenchiderea unei v\u00e2nz\u0103ri, sus\u0163inerea unei prezent\u0103ri \u00een public, \u00eencercarea de a impresiona pe cineva \u2013 toate acestea pot fi afectate de dorin\u0163a de control. De exemplu:<\/p>\n<p>\n\u2022 T\u0103cerea poate spune mai mult dec\u00e2t \u00eencercarea de a ne demonstra punctul de vedere.<\/p>\n<p>\n\u2022 Prieteniile, arta, natura, frumuse\u0163ea \u015fi rela\u0163iile sunt valoroase \u00een sine, nu pentru un scop anume.<\/p>\n<p>\n\u2022 Cu c\u00e2t ne fix\u0103m mai mult pe rezultate, cu at\u00e2t ob\u0163inem mai pu\u0163in.<\/p>\n<p>\n\u2022 Pentru a ne g\u0103si sinele autentic, trebuie s\u0103 privim dincolo de noi \u00een\u015fine.<\/p>\n<p>\n\u2022 D\u0103m tot ce avem mai bun \u00een lume atunci c\u00e2nd ne pas\u0103 mai pu\u0163in de judecata celorlal\u0163i.<\/p>\n<p>\nAceasta este c\u0103l\u0103toria de la performan\u0163\u0103 la m\u0103iestrie. \u201eAc\u0163iunea f\u0103r\u0103 efort\u201d este calea spre m\u0103iestrie. Pentru a reu\u015fi, trebuie s\u0103 fim relaxa\u0163i, nu tensiona\u0163i; flexibili, nu rigizi; conecta\u0163i, nu dominatori. Iat\u0103 \u015fapte principii care \u00eei ajut\u0103 pe lideri s\u0103 prospere \u00eentr-o lume incert\u0103:<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>1. Nu for\u0163a lucrurile<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nIdeea principal\u0103 este s\u0103 nu te bazezi pe for\u0163\u0103. S\u0103 fii \u00een flux, s\u0103 te mi\u015fti fluid, f\u0103r\u0103 frica de a improviza. S\u0103 \u201ete abandonezi\u201d ritmului natural al lucrurilor. Aceasta este o alt\u0103 form\u0103 de \u201eac\u0163iune\u201d \u2013 nu pasivitate, nu sl\u0103biciune, ci putere prin acceptare \u015fi folosirea inteligent\u0103 a realit\u0103\u0163ii. Este echilibrul dintre implicare \u015fi lini\u015fte interioar\u0103, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 facem lucrurile cu maxim\u0103 pricepere \u015fi eficien\u0163\u0103 \u2013 la fel ca un dansator de balet sau un sportiv de elit\u0103, care se mi\u015fc\u0103 cu gra\u0163ie, agilitate \u015fi precizie.<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>2. Nu e\u015fti un sine separat; suntem to\u0163i conecta\u0163i<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nFacem parte dintr-un sistem mai mare. Juc\u0103m un joc infinit \u015fi ne pierdem pe noi \u00een\u015fine \u00eentr-un scop mai mare dec\u00e2t propria persoan\u0103. Adev\u0103ratul succes nu vine din \u201ea ob\u0163ine\u201d, ci din \u201ea oferi\u201d \u2013 \u00een fiecare gest, \u00een fiecare interac\u0163iune.<\/p>\n<p>\nObsesia pentru \u201ea ob\u0163ine\u201d rupe acest ciclu armonios. \u00centreab\u0103-te: \u201eCe \u00eenseamn\u0103 pentru mine s\u0103 c\u00e2\u015ftig cu adev\u0103rat?\u201d<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<span style=\"color:#3399ff;\"><em><strong>Pui ap\u0103 \u00eentr-o sticl\u0103 \u015fi devine sticla. O pui \u00eentr-un ceainic \u015fi devine ceainicul.<br \/>\nAcum, apa poate curge sau se poate izbi. Fii ap\u0103, prietene.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<strong>Bruce Lee<\/strong><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>\n<strong>3. Concentreaz\u0103-te pe art\u0103, nu pe \u201eaprecieri\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nSuntem cu to\u0163ii creatori \u00eentr-un fel sau altul. Arta nu se limiteaz\u0103 la muzic\u0103, poezie sau pictur\u0103. Ea se reflect\u0103 \u00een munca noastr\u0103, \u00een felul \u00een care tr\u0103im. Arta este expresia sufletului. Este pur\u0103, generoas\u0103 \u015fi nu are nevoie de \u201elike-uri\u201d \u2013 \u015fi tocmai de aceea este irezistibil\u0103. Rick Rubin, legendarul produc\u0103tor muzical, a \u00een\u0163eles acest paradox. El spunea c\u0103 pentru a avea succes, trebuie s\u0103 te g\u00e2nde\u015fti la art\u0103, nu la audien\u0163\u0103. Creeaz\u0103 ceva autentic pentru tine, iar prin asta vei oferi ce e mai bun \u015fi celorlal\u0163i.<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>4. Conecteaz\u0103-te la esen\u0163a ta interioar\u0103<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nAdopt\u0103 o prezen\u0163\u0103 plin\u0103, calm\u0103 \u015fi \u00eencrez\u0103toare, care vine din interior. Nu te l\u0103sa tras \u00een toate direc\u0163iile de cerin\u0163ele exterioare, care creeaz\u0103 nesiguran\u0163\u0103 \u015fi dependen\u0163\u0103. Fii st\u0103p\u00e2n pe tine. Energia ta atrage oamenii. Spiritul t\u0103u poate modela realitatea celor din jur \u2013 nu prin for\u0163\u0103, nu prin impunere, ci prin invitarea lor \u00eentr-o c\u0103l\u0103torie comun\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>5. Bl\u00e2nde\u0163ea este putere<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nNu \u00eencerca doar s\u0103 te impui, s\u0103 convingi sau s\u0103 obligi pe cineva s\u0103-\u0163i accepte voin\u0163a. Puterea nu vine din \u201efor\u0163\u0103 \u00eempotriva for\u0163ei\u201d, ci din conexiune. Dac\u0103 for\u0163ezi, creezi rezisten\u0163\u0103, conflicte \u015fi resentimente. \u00cen schimb, folose\u015fte curiozitatea, empatia \u015fi \u00een\u0163elegerea. \u201eFiecare b\u0103t\u0103lie este c\u00e2\u015ftigat\u0103 \u00eenainte de a fi purtat\u0103\u201d \u2013 Sun Tzu.<\/p>\n<p>\nBl\u00e2nde\u0163ea poate \u00eenvinge for\u0163a. Un singur om, Mahatma Gandhi, a \u00een\u0163eles natura adev\u0103ratei puteri \u015fi a pus cap\u0103t Imperiului Britanic \u00een 1947.<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>6. C\u0103l\u0103toria este recompensa<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nPentru a ob\u0163ine rezultatele dorite, trebuie s\u0103 te \u00eendr\u0103goste\u015fti de proces. Iube\u015fte fiecare mi\u015fcare, fiecare pas, fiecare respira\u0163ie. Vei experimenta combina\u0163ii paradoxale: energie \u015fi lini\u015fte, echilibru \u015fi entuziasm, relaxare \u015fi motiva\u0163ie. Steve Jobs spunea:<\/p>\n<p>\n\u201eGreutatea succesului a fost \u00eenlocuit\u0103 de u\u015furin\u0163a de a fi din nou un \u00eencep\u0103tor&#8230; Aceasta m-a eliberat \u015fi m-a condus c\u0103tre una dintre cele mai creative perioade ale vie\u0163ii mele.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>7. Controleaz\u0103 prin&#8230; renun\u0163area la control<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nCele mai frumoase lucruri \u00een via\u0163\u0103 \u2013 fericirea, iubirea, autenticitatea \u2013 nu pot fi for\u0163ate. Cu c\u00e2t alerg\u0103m dup\u0103 ele, cu at\u00e2t se \u00eendep\u0103rteaz\u0103. Cu c\u00e2t \u00eencerc\u0103m mai pu\u0163in s\u0103 control\u0103m oamenii sau situa\u0163iile, cu at\u00e2t c\u00e2\u015ftig\u0103m mai mult\u0103 influen\u0163\u0103 \u015fi putere \u00eentr-o lume incert\u0103. De la ego la suflet \u2013 aceasta este adev\u0103rata recompens\u0103. \u201eAc\u0163iunea f\u0103r\u0103 efort\u201d necesit\u0103 ani de practic\u0103 \u015fi o \u00een\u0163elegere profund\u0103 a felului \u00een care func\u0163ioneaz\u0103 via\u0163a. Aceasta este c\u0103l\u0103toria de la ego la suflet \u2013 \u015fi aceasta este recompensa real\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\nA\u015fa cum spunea Maestrul:<\/p>\n<p>\n\u201eFii ap\u0103, prietene.\u201d&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dorin\u0163a de a reu\u015fi este fundamental\u0103 pentru natura uman\u0103. Am fost \u00eenv\u0103\u0163a\u0163i c\u0103, pentru a avea succes, trebuie s\u0103 ne for\u0163\u0103m, s\u0103 ne impunem mereu controlul. Dar exist\u0103 \u015fi o alt\u0103 cale\u2026 \u00cen filosofia oriental\u0103 a dao-ului (Calea), se vorbe\u015fte despre \u201eac\u0163iunea f\u0103r\u0103 efort\u201d (wu-wei) \u2013 adic\u0103 \u201ea ac\u0163iona f\u0103r\u0103 a for\u0163a, a te mi\u015fca [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[510,529,512],"tags":[52689,54542,87,31534],"class_list":["post-234321","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-actualitate","category-opinii","category-revista-bm","tag-harry-meintassis","tag-meintassis-partners","tag-opinie","tag-partener"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/234321","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=234321"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/234321\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=234321"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=234321"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=234321"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}