{"id":220442,"date":"2023-10-16T08:30:00","date_gmt":"2023-10-16T08:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/?p=220442"},"modified":"2023-10-16T08:30:00","modified_gmt":"2023-10-16T08:30:00","slug":"fara-aprecierea-si-respectul-celorlalti-adevaratul-leadership-devine-ineficient-daca-nu-imposibil","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/?p=220442","title":{"rendered":"\u201eF\u0103r\u0103 aprecierea \u015fi respectul celorlal\u0163i, adev\u0103ratul leadership devine ineficient, dac\u0103 nu imposibil\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\nEste una dintre afirma\u0163iile f\u0103cute \u00een cartea Knockout Entrepreneur: My Ten-Count Strategy for Winning at Business, de cunoscutul boxer George Foreman, care la finalul carierei sportive a ales s\u0103 devin\u0103 antreprenor. Scriam acum ceva timp, \u00een deschiderea unui alt num\u0103r al BUSINESS Magazin, despre importan\u0163a de a c\u00e2\u015ftiga respectul \u015fefului, nu prietenia sa. Privind acum din perspectiva \u015fefului, fie el manager cu experien\u0163\u0103 sau proasp\u0103t numit, lucrurile par s\u0103 func\u0163ioneze similar. Ai ajuns recent \u00een pozi\u0163ia de lider \u015fi vrei s\u0103 faci totul ca la carte, s\u0103 aduci rezultate, s\u0103 \u0163ii echipa unit\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i p\u0103strezi \u015fi mult r\u00e2vnitul work-life balance?<\/p>\n<p>\nProbabil nu vei putea s\u0103 le bifezi pe toate din start, cel pu\u0163in nu simultan, \u00eens\u0103 exist\u0103 un ingredient care ar putea reprezenta primul pas \u00een direc\u0163ia potrivit\u0103: s\u0103 c\u00e2\u015ftigi respectul angaja\u0163ilor. Nu s\u0103-i faci s\u0103 se team\u0103 de tine. Nu s\u0103 le devii cel mai bun prieten. Ci s\u0103 \u00eei faci s\u0103 te respecte. De ce? Pentru c\u0103, dac\u0103 oamenii te respect\u0103, vor fi dispu\u015fi s\u0103 lupte al\u0103turi de tine pentru a atinge obiectivele pe care le vei seta, \u00ee\u0163i vor cere sfatul \u00eentr-un impas profesional, vor avea \u00eencredere \u00een deciziile tale \u015fi toate aceste lucruri te vor ajuta s\u0103 ob\u0163ii rezultatele de care vorbeam mai sus. \u00centrebarea care se ridic\u0103 natural este: care sunt pa\u015fii potrivi\u0163i pe care \u00eei po\u0163i face pentru a le trezi acest respect, care se c\u00e2\u015ftig\u0103 uneori cu mult efort? Propun c\u00e2teva idei, iar lista o pute\u0163i continua voi:&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>1. Creeaz\u0103 o stare de reciprocitate. <\/strong>O prim\u0103 cale prin care po\u0163i c\u00e2\u015ftiga respectul oamenilor este s\u0103 \u00eel oferi la r\u00e2ndul t\u0103u, s\u0103 stabile\u015fti o reciprocitate. O po\u0163i face \u00een multe feluri. Respect\u0103-i ca persoane, indiferent c\u0103 vorbim de v\u00e2rst\u0103, gusturi, orientare, personalitate. Respect\u0103-le opinia, chiar dac\u0103 nu e\u015fti de acord cu ea. Respect\u0103-le programul de lucru, recompenseaz\u0103-i corect \u015fi trateaz\u0103-i egal. Pe scurt, creeaz\u0103 un mediu de lucru incluziv, echitabil \u015fi echilibrat. \u015ei dac\u0103 te \u00eentrebi c\u00e2t de important e pentru angaja\u0163i s\u0103 se simt\u0103 respecta\u0163i, r\u0103spunsul \u00eel d\u0103 un studiu realizat de Harvard Business Review, potrivit c\u0103ruia respectul a fost cotat de angaja\u0163ii intervieva\u0163i pe prima pozi\u0163ie \u00een topul celor mai importante ac\u0163iuni ale liderilor. \u00cen plus, responden\u0163ii care se sim\u0163eau respecta\u0163i de liderii lor s-au declarat, printre altele, mai s\u0103n\u0103to\u015fi (56%), mai mul\u0163umi\u0163i \u015fi mai satisf\u0103cu\u0163i de jobul lor (89%), mai focusa\u0163i (92%) \u015fi au sus\u0163inut c\u0103 e mai probabil s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een companie.<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>2. Fii mentor, nu prieten. <\/strong>Cu toate c\u0103 poate fi tentant s\u0103 te \u00eemprietene\u015fti cu cei din echip\u0103 care \u00ee\u0163i seam\u0103n\u0103, c\u0103ci e foarte posibil s\u0103 descoperi c\u0103 ai hobby-uri comune cu anumi\u0163i angaja\u0163i sau o personalitate asem\u0103n\u0103toare, p\u00e2n\u0103 vei reu\u015fi s\u0103 consolidezi leg\u0103tura pe care o ai cu subordona\u0163ii din postura de lider \u015fi s\u0103 ajunge\u0163i la un \u201eflow\u201d potrivit pentru a v\u0103 desf\u0103\u015fura activitatea ar fi bine s\u0103 men\u0163ii o anumit\u0103 rezerv\u0103. \u015ei asta pentru a nu risca s\u0103 creezi impresia c\u0103 e\u015fti p\u0103rtinitor ori s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i fie dificil s\u0103 te impui c\u00e2nd situa\u0163ia o cere. Din nou, e important s\u0103 le c\u00e2\u015ftigi \u00eent\u00e2i respectul. Dar po\u0163i fructifica aceast\u0103 chimie devenindu-le mentor \u2013 o tactic\u0103 cu beneficii r\u0103sfr\u00e2nte at\u00e2t la nivel individual c\u00e2t \u015fi asupra companiei.<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>3. Expune-\u0163i propriile gre\u015feli, dar \u00eenso\u0163e\u015fte-le de lec\u0163iile \u00eenv\u0103\u0163ate. <\/strong>O \u00eentrebare pe care le-o punem adesea liderilor intervieva\u0163i e: \u201eDin ce gre\u015feli a\u0163i \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at cele mai valoroase lec\u0163ii?\u201d S\u0103 fii un exemplu pentru echip\u0103 nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 faci sau s\u0103 par\u0103 c\u0103 faci totul ca la carte. Din contr\u0103, transparen\u0163a cu privire la propriile gre\u015feli poate avea \u00een unele situa\u0163ii un impact mai puternic asupra echipei, c\u0103ci te \u201eumanizeaz\u0103\u201d. \u00cens\u0103 nu uita ca, \u00eentotdeauna, c\u00e2nd le vorbe\u015fti de gre\u015felile pe care le-ai f\u0103cut, s\u0103 pui pe mas\u0103 \u015fi lec\u0163ia \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at\u0103 din ele. Pentru c\u0103 \u00een acest fel gre\u015feala se transform\u0103 \u00een obstacol \u015fi repercusiunea, \u00een lec\u0163ie. Nu doar c\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i vei apropia oamenii, ci le vei c\u0103p\u0103ta mult mai u\u015for \u00eencrederea, a\u015fa c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd vor face la r\u00e2ndul lor gre\u015feli \u2013 \u015fi vor face! \u2013 vor avea curajul s\u0103 vin\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 le discute deschis, \u00een loc s\u0103 le ascund\u0103, risc\u00e2nd s\u0103 degenereze \u00een situa\u0163ii care pot afecta imaginea departamentului\/firmei.<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>4. \u00cemparte cu echipa \u015fi responsabilitatea e\u015fecului, nu doar meritul reu\u015fitelor. <\/strong>Exist\u0103 \u015fefi care se bucur\u0103 c\u00e2nd echipa aduce rezultate \u015fi exist\u0103 \u015fefi care \u00ee\u015fi asum\u0103 creditul pentru reu\u015fit\u0103, chiar dac\u0103 poate singurul merit este titulatura de\u0163inut\u0103. Dar c\u00e2nd echipa ajunge \u00een impas \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 se sustrag\u0103 din fa\u0163a responsabilit\u0103\u0163ii \u015fi s\u0103 scoat\u0103 un vinovat sau altul la \u00eenaintare. Acest tip de \u015fef nu va reu\u015fi niciodat\u0103 s\u0103 c\u00e2\u015ftige respectul oamenilor. Un \u015fef-lider va ac\u0163iona ca un c\u0103pitan de vas \u015fi va p\u0103r\u0103si ultimul nava \u00eentr-un caz extrem.&nbsp; Astfel, va celebra nu doar reu\u015fitele, ci \u00ee\u015fi va asuma la unison cu echipa rezultatele proaste \u015fi va \u00eenv\u0103\u0163a din ele cum s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi organizeze mai bine \u201ebuc\u0103t\u0103ria intern\u0103\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>5. Coboar\u0103 de pe piedestal. <\/strong>Dac\u0103 vrei ca oamenii s\u0103 te respecte, nu profita de pozi\u0163ia ta pentru a beneficia de tratament preferen\u0163ial. Respect\u0103-\u0163i programul de lucru, respect\u0103-\u0163i deadline-urile \u015fi \u00eemparte&nbsp;&nbsp; echitabil volumul de munc\u0103. E firesc s\u0103 ai un salariu mai mare, e firesc s\u0103 ai anumite beneficii aferente pozi\u0163iei pe care o de\u0163ii, \u00eens\u0103 c\u00e2nd vine vorba de rela\u0163iile interumane, nu te plasa \u00eentr-o pozi\u0163ie de superioritate, dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 ai nu o echip\u0103 de subalterni, ci o echip\u0103 de colegi care s\u0103 te respecte.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>Andra Stroe este jurnalist BUSINESS Magazin<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Este una dintre afirma\u0163iile f\u0103cute \u00een cartea Knockout Entrepreneur: My Ten-Count Strategy for Winning at Business, de cunoscutul boxer George Foreman, care la finalul carierei sportive a ales s\u0103 devin\u0103 antreprenor. Scriam acum ceva timp, \u00een deschiderea unui alt num\u0103r al BUSINESS Magazin, despre importan\u0163a de a c\u00e2\u015ftiga respectul \u015fefului, nu prietenia sa. Privind acum [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[510,529,7218,512],"tags":[48404,192,235,535,87],"class_list":["post-220442","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-actualitate","category-opinii","category-resurse-umane","category-revista-bm","tag-andra-stroe","tag-angajati","tag-business","tag-lideri","tag-opinie"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/220442","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=220442"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/220442\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=220442"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=220442"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=220442"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}