{"id":218382,"date":"2023-07-31T08:30:00","date_gmt":"2023-07-31T08:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/?p=218382"},"modified":"2023-07-31T08:30:00","modified_gmt":"2023-07-31T08:30:00","slug":"cat-de-nesanatos-e-sa-ai-un-sot-o-sotie-de-birou","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/?p=218382","title":{"rendered":"C\u00e2t de (ne)s\u0103n\u0103tos e s\u0103 ai un so\u0163\/o so\u0163ie \u201ede birou\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

\nO problem\u0103 des \u00eent\u00e2lnit\u0103 \u00een cupluri e gelozia, care are r\u0103d\u0103cini sau se r\u0103sfr\u00e2nge, adesea, \u015fi \u00een via\u0163a de birou a unuia dintre parteneri. Recent, \u00een cercul meu de prieteni cineva a adus \u00een discu\u0163ie conceptul de \u201ework spouse\u201d (so\u0163ia\/so\u0163ul \u201ede birou\u201d), care mi-a st\u00e2rnit curiozitatea \u015fi despre care aveam s\u0103 aflu c\u0103 se refer\u0103 la rela\u0163ia platonic\u0103 \u00eentre colegii de lucru care rezoneaz\u0103 \u015fi \u00ee\u015fi \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u015fesc impresii\/\u00eengrijor\u0103ri\/frustr\u0103ri legate de job, colegi, \u015fefi etc. \u015fi \u00eentre care se creeaz\u0103, astfel, o conexiune comparat\u0103 de speciali\u015fti cu cea dintre so\u0163i. De aici \u015fi denumirea sugestiv\u0103. Sugestive sunt \u015fi sondajele realizate pe aceast\u0103 tem\u0103. Unul, citat de Forbes \u00een 2020 \u015fi realizat de Simply Hired, arat\u0103 c\u0103 \u00een jur de jum\u0103tate dintre femei \u015fi 41% dintre b\u0103rba\u0163i au declarat c\u0103 au avut un so\u0163 sau o so\u0163ie \u201ede birou\u201d \u00eentr-un punct al carierei.<\/p>\n

\nO astfel de leg\u0103tur\u0103 apare mai ales din nevoia de a avea al\u0103turi un aliat, o persoan\u0103 care s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 pe limba ta, cineva care s\u0103 \u015ftie prin ce provoc\u0103ri treci \u015f.a.m.d, lucruri pe care partenerului de acas\u0103, dac\u0103 nu lucreaz\u0103 \u00een aceea\u015fi companie sau m\u0103car \u00een acela\u015fi domeniu, e complicat s\u0103 i le \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u015fe\u015fti. Asta dac\u0103 ai un partener acas\u0103.<\/p>\n

\nDac\u0103 nu \u00eel ai, e cu at\u00e2t mai u\u015for de \u00een\u0163eles de unde se na\u015fte nevoia de comunicare, \u015fi un avantaj poate fi c\u0103 un partener de birou \u00ee\u0163i poate deveni \u015fi partener de via\u0163\u0103. Lu\u00e2nd \u00een considerare burnoutul \u00een care se afl\u0103 mul\u0163i corporati\u015fti, \u015fi nu numai, depresia de care sufer\u0103 zeci de milioane de oameni (5% dintre adul\u0163ii din toat\u0103 lumea, potrivit World Health Organization), o conexiune de acest fel poate fi benefic\u0103, c\u0103ci temerile, nemul\u0163umirile \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u015fite pot diminua nivelul de stres \u015fi comunicarea ofer\u0103 o bun\u0103stare psihic\u0103 \u015fi social\u0103 de care cu to\u0163ii avem nevoie. \u00cen plus, o rela\u0163ie profesional\u0103 str\u00e2ns\u0103 poate cre\u015fte \u015fi randamentul la nivel de echip\u0103, cresc\u00e2nd gradul de reten\u0163ie a angaja\u0163ilor \u015fi\/sau gener\u00e2nd rezultate bune pentru angajator, rezultate care pot, \u015fi contribui totodat\u0103, la nivel individual, la propulsarea carierei.<\/p>\n

\nDincolo de avantajele evidente exist\u0103 \u00eens\u0103 \u015fi o serie de riscuri de care trebuie s\u0103 \u0163in\u0103 cont cei care \u00ee\u015fi creeaz\u0103 leg\u0103turi de acest tip la birou. \u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, riscul evident e acela de a transforma rela\u0163ia platonic\u0103 \u00eentr-una romantic\u0103 \u2013, mai ales c\u0103 acela\u015fi sondaj citat anterior arat\u0103 c\u0103 84% dintre responden\u0163ii de sex masculin \u015fi 61% dintre responden\u0163ii de sex feminin au recunoscut c\u0103 s-au sim\u0163it atra\u015fi de \u201eso\u0163ia\/so\u0163ul de birou\u201d \u2013 sau de a fi tentat s\u0103 o transformi \u00eentr-o rela\u0163ie romantic\u0103, iar sentimentul s\u0103 nu fie reciproc.<\/p>\n

\nIar de aici pot ap\u0103rea o serie \u00eentreag\u0103 de probleme, at\u00e2t de ordin personal, c\u00e2t \u015fi profesional, mai ales c\u00e2nd leg\u0103turile se formeaz\u0103 \u00eentre angaja\u0163i de grade diferite, 27% dintre americanii chestiona\u0163i \u00eentr-un alt sondaj declar\u00e2nd c\u0103 au ie\u015fit la \u00eent\u00e2lnire cu \u015fefii lor direc\u0163i sau persoane aflate mai sus pe scara ierarhic\u0103, iar 20%, cu subordona\u0163ii lor sau persoane aflate mai jos pe scara ierarhic\u0103 din compania pentru care lucrau.<\/p>\n

\nUn alt risc e acela de a te \u00eenstr\u0103ina de restul echipei, fapt ce poate avea, de asemenea, o serie de repercusiuni \u2013 o coordonare mai slab\u0103 \u00een cazul unor proiecte comune sau riscul de a r\u0103m\u00e2ne izolat \u00een cazul \u00een care so\u0163ul\/so\u0163ia de birou pleac\u0103 din companie ori \u00een cazul \u00een care rela\u0163ia dintre voi se stric\u0103\/r\u0103ce\u015fte la un moment dat.<\/p>\n

\nDe asemenea, dac\u0103 din varii motive aceast\u0103 leg\u0103tur\u0103 se rupe, exist\u0103 riscul de a te sim\u0163i comple\u015fit \u015fi de a te ad\u00e2nci \u00een afec\u0163iunile de care pomeneam mai sus, precum depresia \u015fi burnoutul. <\/p>\n

\nTotodat\u0103, o rela\u0163ie prea str\u00e2ns\u0103 cu un partener de lucru poate afecta work-life balance-ul, deoarece po\u0163i avea tendin\u0163a de a petrece mai mult timp la lucru \u015fi mai pu\u0163in timp cu familia real\u0103 ori pur \u015fi simplu s\u0103 dedici mai pu\u0163in timp liber hobby-urilor pe care le ai \u015fi tot a\u015fa.<\/p>\n

\nE interesant \u015fi ce spun angaja\u0163ii din diverse genera\u0163ii despre acest concept. \u00centr-un sondaj realizat de Redfield & Wilton Strategies pentru Newsweek, doar 39% dintre responden\u0163ii din Genera\u0163ia Z (18-24 de ani – \u0163ine\u0163i cont c\u0103 aceast\u0103 clasificare pe ani difer\u0103 de la studiu la studiu!) \u015fi 40% dintre membrii Baby Boomers (\u010250 de ani) dezaprobau ideea, \u00een timp ce mai mult de jum\u0103tate (57%) dintre millennials (18-34 de ani) au fost \u00eempotriva conceptului, dovedindu-se cei mai conservatori.<\/p>\n

\nVoi ave\u0163i\/a\u0163i avut vreodat\u0103 un so\u0163\/o so\u0163ie de birou? <\/p>\n

\nAndra Stroe este jurnalist BUSINESS Magazin<\/strong><\/p>\n

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O problem\u0103 des \u00eent\u00e2lnit\u0103 \u00een cupluri e gelozia, care are r\u0103d\u0103cini sau se r\u0103sfr\u00e2nge, adesea, \u015fi \u00een via\u0163a de birou a unuia dintre parteneri. Recent, \u00een cercul meu de prieteni cineva a adus \u00een discu\u0163ie conceptul de \u201ework spouse\u201d (so\u0163ia\/so\u0163ul \u201ede birou\u201d), care mi-a st\u00e2rnit curiozitatea \u015fi despre care aveam s\u0103 aflu c\u0103 se refer\u0103 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[510,7218,512],"tags":[48404,192,7952,87,33540,20319],"class_list":["post-218382","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-actualitate","category-resurse-umane","category-revista-bm","tag-andra-stroe","tag-angajati","tag-birou","tag-opinie","tag-relatie","tag-sotie"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/218382","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=218382"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/218382\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=218382"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=218382"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=218382"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}