{"id":215652,"date":"2023-05-08T00:34:00","date_gmt":"2023-05-08T00:34:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/?p=215652"},"modified":"2026-04-09T17:31:38","modified_gmt":"2026-04-09T17:31:38","slug":"angajatii-fara-copii-personajele-fantastice-de-la-locul-de-munca-chiar-daca-esti-foarte-familist-de-fapt-dar-nu-ai-copii-colegii-care-sunt-parinti-te-trateaza-ca-si-cum-ai-20-de-ani-nic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/?p=215652","title":{"rendered":"Angaja\u0163ii f\u0103r\u0103 copii, personajele fantastice de la locul de munc\u0103? \u201eChiar dac\u0103 e\u015fti foarte familist, de fapt, dar nu ai copii, colegii care sunt p\u0103rin\u0163i te trateaz\u0103 ca \u015fi cum ai 20 de ani, nicio grij\u0103 \u015fi ca \u015fi cum ai fi mereu \u00een studen\u0163ie\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

\nScriu acest text de l\u00e2ng\u0103 Acropole, Atena, unde am venit de 1 mai, dup\u0103 ce m-am uitat aproape jum\u0103tate de an la coperta cu ruinele antice care ilustreaz\u0103 volumul I al operelor integrale ale lui Platon \u2013 \u201eAp\u0103rarea lui Socrate\u201d (am \u015fi citit-o, nu m-am uitat doar la coper\u0163i).<\/p>\n

\n\u00cemi plac pove\u015ftile \u015fi dezbaterile din Grecia antic\u0103, de\u015fi nu \u00eemi place felul \u00een care primii filosofi ai lumii, inclusiv Socrate, se raportau la femei, a c\u0103ror singur\u0103  menire era pe atunci s\u0103 fac\u0103 copii. Cu acest g\u00e2nd \u00een minte, revin la subiectul arz\u0103tor al natalit\u0103\u0163ii \u00een ap\u0103rarea genului pe care \u00eel reprezint (dup\u0103 ce am auzit din nou opinii din care reiese c\u0103 sc\u0103derea acesteia este influen\u0163at\u0103 de \u201etenta\u0163iile fetelor\u201d \u2013 inclusiv de city breakuri, unde mai ajung \u015fi eu).<\/p>\n

\n\"\"\u00cemi place s\u0103 cred c\u0103 am evoluat destul de mult \u00een cursul istoriei p\u00e2n\u0103 la punctul \u00een care s\u0103 accept\u0103m c\u0103 unii oameni, at\u00e2t femei, c\u00e2t \u015fi b\u0103rba\u0163i (chiar \u015fi persoane neutre din punctul de vedere al genului acum), nu vor copii, pur \u015fi simplu. Nu ar trebui s\u0103 fie nevoie s\u0103 reamintesc \u015fi c\u0103 unii oameni efectiv nu pot s\u0103 \u00eei fac\u0103 (nu au cu cine, nu au cum, nu au posibilit\u0103\u0163i financiare, etc. etc.). Cred c\u0103 politica de \u00eencurajare a natalit\u0103\u0163ii nu este ceva ce \u0163ine de \u201eorganizarea cet\u0103\u0163ii\u201d, tot ca \u00een Grecia antic\u0103, ci este o alegere personal\u0103, influen\u0163at\u0103 de situa\u0163ia financiar\u0103 \u015fi personal\u0103, istoricul, alegerea fiec\u0103ruia.<\/p>\n

\nAcestea fiind spuse, este normal ca \u00eentr-o organiza\u0163ie s\u0103 existe ambele \u201especii\u201d de angaja\u0163i: p\u0103rin\u0163i, dar \u015fi oameni f\u0103r\u0103 copii. Cu siguran\u0163\u0103 exist\u0103 discriminare \u00een r\u00e2ndul ambelor tipuri de angaja\u0163i \u2013 \u00eens\u0103 cred c\u0103, \u00een Rom\u00e2nia cel pu\u0163in, despre felul \u00een care sunt discrimina\u0163i oamenii f\u0103r\u0103 copii se vorbe\u015fte mai pu\u0163in. Activit\u0103\u0163ile \u00een care sunt implica\u0163i ace\u015fti nonp\u0103rin\u0163i sunt uneori ne\u00een\u0163elese. A\u015fa cum spunea \u00eentr-un articol pe aceast\u0103 tem\u0103 ResumeLab, o companie axat\u0103 pe construirea de CV-uri \u015fi de scrisori de inten\u0163ie pentru candida\u0163i, persoanele f\u0103r\u0103 copii sunt deseori asem\u0103nate cu \u201eanimalele fantastice\u201d: \u201eSunt ne\u00een\u0163ele\u015fi, iar activit\u0103\u0163ile lor \u00een afara biroului sunt derutante. E clar c\u0103 nu au nimic altceva de f\u0103cut dup\u0103 munc\u0103, nu?\u201d.<\/p>\n

\nNonp\u0103rin\u0163ii au \u00eens\u0103 uneori un al doilea job, p\u0103rin\u0163i sau bunici de care trebuie s\u0103 aib\u0103 grij\u0103, o opera\u0163ie minor\u0103 pe care o am\u00e2n\u0103 de luni bune, particip\u0103 la cursuri \u015fi, da, uneori c\u0103l\u0103toresc sau au alte hobbyuri c\u0103rora le dedic\u0103 ore din afara programului de munc\u0103. Uneori \u00eens\u0103, gradul de \u00eenc\u0103rcare \u00een cazul lor este semnificativ mai mare, sunt nevoi\u0163i s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi dep\u0103\u015feasc\u0103 programul orelor de serviciu, s\u0103 munceasc\u0103 \u00een weekenduri \u015fi, atunci c\u00e2nd au nevoie de o zi liber\u0103, s\u0103 le fie refuzat\u0103, mai direct sau indirect. \u00cen plus, \u00een cazul unora dintre companii, programul copiilor, \u00een acest regim de munc\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 pu\u0163in haotic post-pandemie, ghideaz\u0103 uneori programul unei \u00eentregi echipe, mai ales c\u00e2nd este vorba de copiii managerilor: disponibilitatea lor de munc\u0103 este legat\u0103 de acest program. \u015ei cred c\u0103 asta este perfect de \u00een\u0163eles \u00een cazul situa\u0163iilor excep\u0163ionale, dar nu c\u00e2nd devine un mod de munc\u0103. \u201eChiar dac\u0103 e\u015fti foarte familist, de fapt, dar nu ai copii, colegii care sunt p\u0103rin\u0163i te trateaz\u0103 ca \u015fi cum ai 20 de ani, nicio grij\u0103 \u015fi ca \u015fi cum ai fi mereu \u00een studen\u0163ie\u201d, \u00eemi spunea un prieten de aceea\u015fi v\u00e2rst\u0103 cu mine (\u015fi de sex masculin, important de precizat, se pare).<\/p>\n

\nGenul acesta de g\u00e2ndire exist\u0103 la nivel interna\u0163ional \u00eens\u0103 – \u00eentr-un studiu realizat \u00een 2021, \u00een  r\u00e2ndul a 938 de responden\u0163i, dintre care 8 din 10 chiar p\u0103rin\u0163i (tot al ResumeLab), 72% dintre participan\u0163i considerau c\u0103 angaja\u0163ii f\u0103r\u0103 copii sunt trata\u0163i \u00een mod incorect la locul de munc\u0103 (\u015fi 67% tocmai fiindc\u0103 aveau); per ansamblu \u00eens\u0103, 74% dintre responden\u0163i considerau c\u0103 oamenii cu copii sunt trata\u0163i mai bine \u00een cadrul organiza\u0163iei pentru care lucreaz\u0103. Din acela\u015fi studiu reie\u015fea c\u0103 \u015fansele ca angaja\u0163ii cu copii s\u0103 fie promova\u0163i sunt de 49%, \u00een timp ce procentul este de doar 29%, \u00een cazul celor f\u0103r\u0103, iar cei 22% dintre responden\u0163i consider\u0103 c\u0103 cele dou\u0103 grupuri au \u015fanse egale. La fel stau lucrurile \u015fi c\u00e2nd vine vorbea de \u015fansele pentru o m\u0103rire de salariu: 53% p\u0103rin\u0163i vs. 23% nonp\u0103rin\u0163i. \u00cen plus, 85% dintre responden\u0163i spun c\u0103 oamenii cu copii au prioritate atunci c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u015fi planific\u0103 vacan\u0163ele \u015fi zilele libere.<\/p>\n

\nDac\u0103 e s\u0103 \u00eemi dau cu p\u0103rerea, din nou, despre mileniali \u015fi natalitate, eu cred c\u0103 nu vorbim despre o genera\u0163ie care nu face copii – ci care \u00eei va face mai t\u00e2rziu. Cred asta tot din cauza aspira\u0163iilor de carier\u0103, pentru care ne dedic\u0103m mare parte din via\u0163\u0103. V\u0103 reamintesc \u015fi c\u0103 suntem \u015fi \u201egenera\u0163ia cu cheia la g\u00e2t\u201d, cei care am v\u0103zut ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 ca p\u0103rin\u0163ii s\u0103 nu aib\u0103 suficient timp pentru noi din cauza muncii. V\u00e2rsta medie la care oamenii fac copii a crescut, de\u015fi cred c\u0103 nimeni dintre cei care vor copii nu pl\u0103nuie\u015fte s\u0103 \u00eei fac\u0103 de fapt \u201ela b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0163e\u201d. Dar c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u0163i dedici toat\u0103 via\u0163a carierei, cam asta e tot ce \u015ftii s\u0103 faci, nu te \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 nimeni s\u0103 fii p\u0103rinte. Activit\u0103\u0163ile de ne\u00een\u0163eles, cum ar fi un hobby, pot fi un prim pas \u015fi \u00een direc\u0163ia unui copil \u015fi a unei familii \u201eca la carte\u201d – e nevoie s\u0103 faci pu\u0163in loc pentru tine, \u00eenainte de a face loc unei persoane pe care s\u0103 o cre\u015fti. P\u00e2n\u0103 atunci \u00eens\u0103, abordarea c\u0103 angaja\u0163ii f\u0103r\u0103 copii sunt mai disponibili dec\u00e2t cei cu copii este una ancestral\u0103: dac\u0103 g\u00e2nde\u015fti a\u015fa, g\u00e2nde\u015fti practic ca \u00een Grecia antic\u0103, mai ales c\u00e2nd vine vorba de angaja\u0163ii femei. <\/p>\n

\nIoana Matei, editor Business MAGAZIN<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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