{"id":211463,"date":"2022-12-26T13:31:00","date_gmt":"2022-12-26T13:31:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/?p=211463"},"modified":"2022-12-26T13:31:00","modified_gmt":"2022-12-26T13:31:00","slug":"in-cautarea-fericirii-aceasta-propozitie-formata-din-patru-cuvinte-iti-distruge-abilitatea-de-a-fi-fericit-totusi-toata-lumea-o-spune","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/?p=211463","title":{"rendered":"\u00cen c\u0103utarea fericirii: Aceast\u0103 propozi\u0163ie format\u0103 din patru cuvinte \u00ee\u0163i distruge abilitatea de a fi fericit. Totu\u015fi, toat\u0103 lumea o spune"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\n<span style=\"font-size:14px;\">Toat\u0103 lumea vrea s\u0103 fie fericit\u0103, totu\u015fi, calea c\u0103tre aceasta poate fi destul de misterioas\u0103.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\n<span style=\"font-size:14px;\">Un articol al publica\u0163iei americane Inc. arat\u0103 cum o simpl\u0103 propozi\u0163ie, pe care cei mai mul\u0163i dintre noi am rostit-o cel pu\u0163in o dat\u0103, ne poate face s\u0103 ne \u00eendep\u0103rt\u0103m \u015fi mai mult de ceea ce ne dorim: \u201eVreau s\u0103 fiu fericit\u201d. Sau o varia\u0163ie a acesteia: \u201eVreau s\u0103 fiu mai fericit\u201d. Dac\u0103 vre\u0163i s\u0103 fi\u0163i ferici\u0163i, se pare c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 evita\u0163i s\u0103 rosti\u0163i aceast\u0103 propozi\u0163ie, ar putea fi chiar motivul pentru care fericirea ne scap\u0103. Am auzit cu to\u0163ii c\u0103 primul pas pentru a ajunge la un anumit progres este s\u0103 facem declara\u0163ii \u00eendr\u0103zne\u0163e \u015fi s\u0103 ne fix\u0103m obiective \u015fi mai \u00eendr\u0103zne\u0163e. Totu\u015fi, c\u00e2nd vine vorba despre cre\u015fterea nivelului fericirii, fixarea unui astfel de obiectiv m\u0103re\u0163 nu face dec\u00e2t s\u0103 genereze rezultatul opus: nefericirea.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\n<span style=\"font-size:14px;\">\u201e\u015etiin\u0163a, psihologia \u015fi filosofia au ajuns la concluzia c\u0103 o c\u0103utare constant\u0103 a fericirii opre\u015fte de fapt fericirea\u201d, scriu jurnali\u015ftii de la Inc.com.Ideea c\u0103 fericirea adev\u0103rat\u0103 vine de la interior \u015fi c\u0103 nu este ceva ce poate fi urm\u0103rit, nu este doar o filosofie antic\u0103 &#8211; ci \u015fi concluzia la care au ajuns teoriile mai moderne. Unele studii au demonstrat c\u0103 aceast\u0103 c\u0103utare aduce nefericirea, de fapt, dar \u015fi pierderea timpului: potrivit unui studiu publicat de Science Daily, cercet\u0103tori au aflat c\u0103 \u201eoamenii care caut\u0103 fericirea constant nu au suficient timp pe parcursul unei zile, iar asta, \u00een mod paradoxal, \u00eei face neferici\u0163i\u201d.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\n<span style=\"font-size:14px;\">Dar asta nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu ar trebui s\u0103 ne dorim s\u0103 fim ferici\u0163i, ci c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 abord\u0103m acest concept diferit. O variant\u0103 ar fi setarea unor obiective care s\u0103 te fac\u0103 mai fericit. Fixeaz\u0103-\u0163i \u0163eluri care au un drum mai clar spre atingerea lor \u015fi concentreaz\u0103-te pe ceea ce po\u0163i face pe acest drum. Pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce obiectivul este mai clar, posibilitatea s\u0103 atingi fericirea pe parcurs este mai mare.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\n<span style=\"font-size:14px;\">Spre exemplu, s\u0103 spunem c\u0103 vrei o promovare: po\u0163i s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i dezvol\u0163i abilit\u0103\u0163ile \u015fi cuno\u015ftin\u0163ele \u00een domeniul \u00een care lucrezi, s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i dezvol\u0163i productivitatea sau s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i \u00eembog\u0103\u0163e\u015fti re\u0163eaua de networking \u015fi abilit\u0103\u0163ile de networking. Toate acestea te pot ajuta s\u0103 ob\u0163ii o promovare. Dac\u0103 nu, te vor ajuta cu siguran\u0163\u0103 s\u0103 ajungi \u00eentr-o alt\u0103 organiza\u0163ie \u015fi probabil \u00eentr-o pozi\u0163ie mai bun\u0103 odat\u0103 cu aceasta.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\n<span style=\"font-size:14px;\">\u00cencerca\u0163i cu obiective precum: \u201eVreau s\u0103 devin un expert \u00een domeniul meu de activitate\u201d, \u201eVreau s\u0103 investesc \u00een mine \u015fi \u00een pasiunile mele\u201d, \u201eVreau s\u0103 petrec mai mult timp cu familia\u201d sau \u201eVreau s\u0103 devin un \u015fef\/prieten\/partener\/p\u0103rinte mai bun\u201d.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\n<span style=\"font-size:14px;\">\u201eAtunci c\u00e2nd fericirea nu mai este obiectivul nostru \u015fi facem din acest obiectiv ceva ce va contribui la fericirea noastr\u0103, vom g\u0103si fericirea\u201d, conchid jurnali\u015ftii americani.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Toat\u0103 lumea vrea s\u0103 fie fericit\u0103, totu\u015fi, calea c\u0103tre aceasta poate fi destul de misterioas\u0103.&nbsp; Un articol al publica\u0163iei americane Inc. arat\u0103 cum o simpl\u0103 propozi\u0163ie, pe care cei mai mul\u0163i dintre noi am rostit-o cel pu\u0163in o dat\u0103, ne poate face s\u0103 ne \u00eendep\u0103rt\u0103m \u015fi mai mult de ceea ce ne dorim: \u201eVreau s\u0103 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[510],"tags":[21816,32901,10356,33646,7486,22221,15404,22407,5843,80],"class_list":["post-211463","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-actualitate","tag-americane","tag-articol","tag-cautare","tag-concluzie","tag-cuvinte","tag-distrugere","tag-fericire","tag-fiu","tag-obiectiv","tag-refuz"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/211463","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=211463"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/211463\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=211463"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=211463"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=211463"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}