{"id":208549,"date":"2022-09-21T10:55:54","date_gmt":"2022-09-21T10:55:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/?p=208549"},"modified":"2022-09-21T10:55:54","modified_gmt":"2022-09-21T10:55:54","slug":"harry-meintassis-partener-al-companiei-de-consultanta-meintassis-partner-cinci-descoperiri-ale-dezvoltarii-personale-modelul-april","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/?p=208549","title":{"rendered":"Harry Meintassis, partener al companiei de consultan\u0163\u0103 Meintassis Partner: Cinci descoperiri ale dezvolt\u0103rii personale \u2013 Modelul APRIL"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\n<strong>Ca adul\u0163i, suntem capabili s\u0103 ne dezvolt\u0103m continuu de-a lungul vie\u0163ii. Trecem prin etape, \u00een care vedem \u015fi interpret\u0103m lumea \u00een moduri diferite. Suntem capabili s\u0103 trecem de la g\u00e2ndirea \u201eprimar\u0103\u201d, de supravie\u0163uire, la dimensiuni mai sofisticate ale complexit\u0103\u0163ii mentale \u015fi sensului.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\nCeea ce ne-ar declan\u015fa \u00een mod normal frica, acum ne poate entuziasma, poate scoate la suprafa\u0163\u0103 tot ce este mai bun \u00een noi. Este momentul \u00een care ne sim\u0163im cel mai vii, creativi, ne\u00eenfrica\u0163i. C\u00e2nd noi suntem autorii vie\u0163ilor noastre, ne g\u0103sim eroii interiori (sau eroinele), ne transform\u0103m. Modelul SCARF, un model popular \u00een neuro\u015ftiin\u0163\u0103 (Statut, Certitudine, Autonomie, Rela\u0163ie, Corectitudine\/Fairness), arat\u0103 modul \u00een care creierul nostru primar este construit \u2013 unde vedem lucrurile ca amenin\u0163\u0103ri sau recompense. Este sistemul nostru de operare \u201eimplicit\u201d. Cu toate acestea, ne putem antrena mintea s\u0103 g\u00e2ndeasc\u0103 diferit.<\/p>\n<p>\nLua\u0163i \u201eCertitudine\u201d, de exemplu. De\u015fi avem nevoie de un anumit grad de certitudine, t\u00e2njim \u015fi dup\u0103 entuziasm, aventur\u0103 \u015fi cre\u015ftere. Salut\u0103m incertitudinea \u015fi varietatea ca surse de inova\u0163ie sau ca antidot \u00eempotriva plictiselii. Sau g\u00e2ndi\u0163i-v\u0103 la \u201eCorectitudine\u201d \u2013 de obicei v\u0103zut\u0103 ca un schimb echitabil. Reciprocitate. Sigur, dar asta e tot? Dinte pentru dinte sau quid pro quo? Ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 dac\u0103 e\u015fti amabil, generos \u015fi nu a\u015ftep\u0163i nimic \u00een schimb? Ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 dac\u0103 simplul act de a face ceva pentru al\u0163ii, \u00een special pentru cei mai pu\u0163in privilegia\u0163i, d\u0103 un nou sens \u015fi scop? Nu este aceasta corectitudine? Deci, ce te determin\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat s\u0103 atingi starea de \u201eflux\u201d \u015fi s\u0103 cre\u015fti la poten\u0163ialul t\u0103u maxim? S\u0103 folosim alte lentile \u2013<br \/>\ng\u00e2ndi\u0163i-v\u0103 la APRIL.<\/p>\n<p>\n\u25ba Autonomie (Autonomy) \u2013 E\u015fti un individ complet, unic, \u00ee\u0163i cuno\u015fti adev\u0103rata valoare. \u00cendr\u0103zne\u015fti s\u0103 fii diferit&#8230; Excelezi \u00een ceea ce faci \u015fi, \u00een acela\u015fi timp, e\u015fti perfect sincronizat cu ceilal\u0163i, interconectat cu ceva mai mare dec\u00e2t tine&#8230; Este atunci c\u00e2nd reu\u015fe\u015fti s\u0103-\u0163i subordonezi ego-ul sinelui t\u0103u superior \u2013 \u201eeroul\u201d t\u0103u interior.<\/p>\n<p>\n\u25ba Pasiune (Passion) \u2013 \u00ce\u0163i ascul\u0163i inima \u015fi vocile care sunt conectate la instinctul t\u0103u, \u00ee\u0163i dezl\u0103n\u0163ui spiritul \u015fi emo\u0163iile \u015fi \u00een acest fel \u00eei po\u0163i \u201einfecta\u201d pe al\u0163ii cu emo\u0163iile tale&#8230; Tr\u0103ie\u015fti cu pasiune, nu doar av\u00e2nd o pasiune&#8230; \u00ce\u0163i urmezi cele mai s\u0103lbatice vise, renun\u0163i la confort pentru a face lucruri care au sens pentru tine, \u00een loc s\u0103 urmezi obiective comune pentru pl\u0103ceri confortabile sau s\u0103 faci ceea ce al\u0163ii a\u015fteapt\u0103 de la tine.<\/p>\n<p>\n\u25ba Risc&nbsp; (Risk) \u2013 Te extinzi dincolo de ceea ce este obi\u015fnuit, conven\u0163ional sau confortabil. Cau\u0163i noul, diferitul, surprinz\u0103torul \u00een oameni \u015fi \u00een tine \u2013 este \u00een aventur\u0103, \u00een necunoscut, \u00een neexplorat unde te sim\u0163i cel mai viu&#8230; Este prin a trece peste fricile tale, c\u00e2nd accep\u0163i c\u0103 durerea sau adversitate sunt parte din cine e\u015fti&#8230; C\u00e2nd prea mult confort sau certitudine distruge sensul.<\/p>\n<p>\n\u25ba Improviza\u0163ie (Improvisation) \u2013 E\u015fti agil, adaptiv, fluid ca apa, te predai \u00een loc s\u0103 for\u0163ezi \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 controlezi&#8230; E\u015fti flexibil, tr\u0103ie\u015fti momentul, creezi minuni f\u0103r\u0103 scenariu, te la\u015fi dus de val&#8230; Acum te conectezi la un nivel diferit cu al\u0163ii&#8230; Gre\u015felile sau e\u015fecurile tale sunt c\u0103ile tale interesante pentru ceva nou \u015fi nea\u015fteptat, sunt aur pur! Aceast\u0103 improviza\u0163ie \u201ef\u0103r\u0103 efort\u201d este sus\u0163inut\u0103 de o practic\u0103 profund\u0103, deliberat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\n\u25ba \u00cenv\u0103\u0163are (Learning) \u2013 Nu te opre\u015fti din evoluat, \u00eenve\u0163i la diferite niveluri \u2013 nu doar \u00eenve\u0163i lucruri, \u00eenve\u0163i \u201etu\u201d, \u00ee\u0163i schimbi povestea. Exist\u0103 mor\u0163i \u015fi rena\u015fteri continue \u00een interiorul t\u0103u&#8230; C\u00e2nd \u015ftii s\u0103 ascul\u0163i, s\u0103 navighezi contradic\u0163ii, c\u00e2nd s\u0103 lup\u0163i \u015fi c\u00e2nd s\u0103 te predai&#8230; C\u00e2nd aduci cu tine sabia unui R\u0103zboinic \u015fi sufletul unui Artist.<\/p>\n<p>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\nAceste cinci descoperiri \u00ee\u0163i ofer\u0103 noi posibilit\u0103\u0163i, de a tr\u0103i \u00een libertate \u015fi creativitate. Acolo unde \u00eenaintezi, te adaptezi, \u00ee\u0163i folose\u015fti puterile \u015fi inteligen\u0163a nu doar pentru a supravie\u0163ui, ci pentru a prospera. Unde transformi provocarea \u015fi stresul \u00een oportunitate \u015fi avantaj. Nu paria niciodat\u0103 pe stabilitate, certitudine sau ordine de durat\u0103. Totul se schimb\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\nC\u00e2nd noi suntem autorii vie\u0163ilor noastre, ne g\u0103sim eroii interiori (sau eroinele), ne transform\u0103m. Modelul SCARF, un model popular \u00een neuro\u015ftiin\u0163\u0103 (Statut, Certitudine, Autonomie, Rela\u0163ie, Corectitudine\/Fairness), arat\u0103 modul \u00een care creierul nostru primar este construit \u2013 unde vedem lucrurile ca amenin\u0163\u0103ri sau recompense.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ca adul\u0163i, suntem capabili s\u0103 ne dezvolt\u0103m continuu de-a lungul vie\u0163ii. Trecem prin etape, \u00een care vedem \u015fi interpret\u0103m lumea \u00een moduri diferite. Suntem capabili s\u0103 trecem de la g\u00e2ndirea \u201eprimar\u0103\u201d, de supravie\u0163uire, la dimensiuni mai sofisticate ale complexit\u0103\u0163ii mentale \u015fi sensului. &nbsp; Ceea ce ne-ar declan\u015fa \u00een mod normal frica, acum ne poate entuziasma, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[510,529,512],"tags":[469,36620,52689,52690,87],"class_list":["post-208549","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-actualitate","category-opinii","category-revista-bm","tag-consultanta","tag-dezvoltare-personala","tag-harry-meintassis","tag-meintassis-partner","tag-opinie"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/208549","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=208549"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/208549\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=208549"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=208549"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=208549"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}