{"id":163530,"date":"2018-08-20T15:32:09","date_gmt":"2018-08-20T15:32:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/?p=163530"},"modified":"2018-08-20T15:32:09","modified_gmt":"2018-08-20T15:32:09","slug":"generatia-care-nu-mai-stie-romaneste-ruptura-definitiva-dintre-bunici-si-nepotii-crescuti-peste-hotare-ma-doare-sufletul-in-afara-de-o-manuta-fluturata-rapid-in-fata-ecranului-nu-mai-prim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/?p=163530","title":{"rendered":"GENERA\u0162IA care nu mai \u015ftie rom\u00e2ne\u015fte. RUPTURA definitiv\u0103 dintre bunici \u015fi nepo\u0163ii crescu\u0163i peste hotare\/ \u201cM\u0103 doare sufletul. \u00cen afar\u0103 de o m\u00e2nu\u0163\u0103 fluturat\u0103 rapid \u00een fa\u0163a ecranului, nu mai primesc altceva\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\nPentru mii de copii pleca\u0163i sau n\u0103scu\u0163i peste hotare, limba rom\u00e2n\u0103 este o provocare. Mul\u0163i dintre ei au uitat sau nu au \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 limba natal\u0103, speciali\u015fti spun\u00e2nd c\u0103 cele mai des \u00eent\u00e2lnite probleme de acest gen sunt cu copiii migran\u0163ilor care au ales \u0163\u0103ri \u00een care se vorbe\u015fte limba englez\u0103 sau german\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\nCopiii evit\u0103 s\u0103 discute cu bunicii pentru c\u0103 nu se pot \u00een\u0163elege, bunicii se simt frustra\u0163i c\u0103 cei mici, \u015fi dac\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleg limba rom\u00e2n\u0103, le r\u0103spund \u00een limba \u0163\u0103rii \u00een care locuiesc. Pr\u0103pastia creat\u0103 \u00eentre genera\u0163ii se ad\u00e2nce\u015fte direct propor\u0163ional cu timpul petrecut de cei mici peste hotare.<\/p>\n<p>\n\u00cen comuna Feldru din jude\u0163ul Bistri\u0163a N\u0103s\u0103ud, peste 2.000 de localnici au plecat \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate la munc\u0103. \u201cEste foarte dureroas\u0103 ruperea de familie a celor care sunt pleca\u0163i. De cele mai multe ori se nasc copii \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate, iar nepo\u0163ii greu se acomodeaz\u0103 cu condi\u0163iile din Rom\u00e2nia sau atunci c\u00e2nd vin \u00eentr-o scurt\u0103 vacan\u0163\u0103 \u00een Rom\u00e2nia. Sunt cazuri c\u00e2nd nepo\u0163ii chiar au uitat sau nu au \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at limba rom\u00e2n\u0103 sau, dac\u0103 sunt \u00eentreba\u0163i \u00een limba rom\u00e2n\u0103, o \u00een\u0163eleg, dar r\u0103spund \u00een limba \u0163\u0103rii unde locuiesc ei. E o durere at\u00e2t pentru p\u0103rin\u0163i, c\u00e2t \u015fi pentru bunici \u015fi, c\u00e2t am fi noi de patrio\u0163i&#8230; Noi am vrea s\u0103 p\u0103str\u0103m aceast\u0103 leg\u0103tur\u0103 \u00eens\u0103, vr\u00e2nd-nevr\u00e2nd, apar \u015fi probleme care tulbur\u0103 lini\u015ftea care trebuie s\u0103 domine \u00eentr-o familie cu mai multe genera\u0163ii,\u201d spune primarul comunei Feldru, Grigore \u0162iolan.<\/p>\n<p>\nVasile Runcan, un bunic de 68 de ani poveste\u015fte cu triste\u0163e c\u0103 nepo\u0163ii, n\u0103scu\u0163i \u00een Irlanda, \u00eel evit\u0103 pentru c\u0103 nu reu\u015fesc s\u0103 se \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103 cu el.<\/p>\n<p>\n\u201cAm doi nepo\u0163i &#8211; o feti\u0163\u0103 \u015fi un b\u0103ie\u0163el, de cinci ani \u015fi jum\u0103tate, respectiv patru ani. M\u0103 doare sufletul de fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd trebuie s\u0103 povestesc cu ei, pentru c\u0103 \u00een afar\u0103 de un Hello, o m\u00e2nu\u0163\u0103 fluturat\u0103 rapid \u00een ecranul calculatorului sau al telefonului, nu mai primesc altceva de la ei. Orice a\u015f \u00eentreba, EI NU \u00ceN\u0162ELEG, se plictisesc \u015fi nu vor s\u0103 stea de vorb\u0103 cu bunicii. Au crescut acolo, \u00een Irlanda, f\u0103r\u0103 nici un grup de rom\u00e2ni \u00een preajm\u0103 a\u015fa c\u0103 este foarte dificil s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleg cu ei\u201d, spune bunicul.<\/p>\n<p>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.gandul.info\/romania\/romania-generatia-care-nu-mai-stie-romaneste-17444624\">Cititi mai multe pe www.gandul.info<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cen \u00eencercarea disperat\u0103 de a nu avea problemele lor de adaptare \u015fi de a nu-\u015fi vedea copiii stigmatiza\u0163i, rom\u00e2nii pleca\u0163i \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate \u00eencurajeaz\u0103 genera\u0163ia care vine dup\u0103 ei s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163e limba \u0163\u0103rii care i-a oferit un trai mai bun. Prietenii, rela\u0163iile, \u015fcoala, toate sunt acolo, departe de \u0163ar\u0103 \u015fi de tot ce e rom\u00e2ne\u015fte. A\u015fa se nasc situa\u0163ii \u00een care bunicii r\u0103ma\u015fi acas\u0103 nu mai pot comunica cu nepo\u0163ii lor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[510],"tags":[553,246,296,22153,17494,26214,10343,31857,484,13251,80,173,12655],"class_list":["post-163530","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-actualitate","tag-copii","tag-crestere","tag-ecran","tag-generatie","tag-limba","tag-nastere","tag-plecare","tag-primire","tag-probleme","tag-rapid","tag-refuz","tag-romani","tag-strainatate"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/163530","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=163530"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/163530\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=163530"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=163530"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=163530"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}