{"id":158486,"date":"2018-03-10T12:59:59","date_gmt":"2018-03-10T12:59:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/?p=158486"},"modified":"2018-03-10T12:59:59","modified_gmt":"2018-03-10T12:59:59","slug":"teo-trandafir-oamenii-fericiti-isi-doresc-nefericirea-pentru-a-putea-intelege-fericirea-din-nou","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/?p=158486","title":{"rendered":"Teo Trandafir: Oamenii ferici\u0163i \u00ee\u015fi doresc nefericirea pentru a putea \u00een\u0163elege fericirea din nou"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\n\u00cen interviul acordat MEDIAFAX \u015fi G\u00e2ndul.info, Teo Trandafir a vorbit \u015fi despre mi\u015fcarea #metoo pe care o consider\u0103 \u201co ipocrizie\u201d preciz\u00e2nd cu umor c\u0103 vorbe\u015fte \u201cdin punctul de vedere al unei femei urate\u201d \u015fi c\u0103 \u201c \u2026niciodat\u0103 nu mi-a pus m\u00e2na pe fund nimeni pentru c\u0103 nici v\u00e2ntul nu mi-ar fi ridicat fustele fustele. \u201c<\/p>\n<p>\nPrezent\u0103m textul integral al interviului acordat agen\u0163iei MEDIAFAX \u015fi G\u00e2ndul.info de c\u0103tre Teo Trandafir.<\/p>\n<p>\nReporter: Ce este extraordinar \u00een via\u0163a ta?<br \/>\neo Trandafir: Cred c\u0103 firescul ei. Toata lumea se a\u015fteapt\u0103 de la mine s\u0103 fiu smucit\u0103 \u00een zece direc\u0163ii \u015fi nu m\u0103 sun\u0103 nimeni pentru c\u0103 fiecare \u00ee\u015fi imagineaz\u0103 c\u0103 m\u0103 sun\u0103 ceilal\u0163i. \u015ei atunci telefonul meu uneori st\u0103 pentru c\u0103 fiecare se g\u00e2nde\u015fte \u201cla c\u00e2t e ea de ocupat\u0103\u201d , lucru pentru care nu sunt at\u00e2t de ocupat\u0103 \u015fi am timp s\u0103 citesc ceva, s\u0103 v\u0103d un film bun, s\u0103 nu fac nimic, \u015fi sunt ocupat\u0103 cu g\u0103situl momentului eminamente masculin \u00een care s\u0103 nu ma g\u00e2ndesc la nimic. Am auzit \u015fi am citit undeva c\u0103 b\u0103rba\u0163ii au aceast\u0103 abilitate fantastic\u0103 de a nu se g\u00e2ndi la nimic. I-am invidiat at\u00e2t de mult pentru asta \u00eenc\u00e2t caut asta \u00een mine . Cic\u0103 exist\u0103 \u00een capul lor ceea ce se nume\u015fte \u201cthe nothing box\u201d. Cutia cu nimic. \u00cen capul unei femei se intampl\u0103 tot timpul ceva extraordinar . Eu caut locul unde s\u0103 nu se \u00eentample nimic ca s\u0103 m\u0103 pot odihni.<\/p>\n<p>\nReporter: \u00cen ce st\u0103 puterea ta?<br \/>\nTeo Trandafir: \u00cen disperare. Cred c\u0103 sentimentul care m\u0103 define\u015fte \u015fi m\u0103 \u00eempinge \u00eenainte este disperarea. O disperare pe care n-ar trebui s-o catalog\u0103m at\u00e2t de drastic pentru c\u0103 disperarea nu e neap\u0103rat un lucru de r\u0103u. E o presiune pe care o simt \u00een general \u00een spate \u015fi care m\u0103 propulseaz\u0103. \u015etiu c\u0103 n-am cum s\u0103 ies din situa\u0163ia \u00een care m\u0103 g\u0103sesc \u015fi atunci imi trebuie putere. \u0162n asta st\u0103 puterea mea. E ca \u015fi c\u00e2nd ar sta \u00een p\u0103r. Dar neav\u00e2nd cine \u015ftie ce, am g\u0103sit disperarea.<\/p>\n<p>\nReporter: \u00cen ce st\u0103 frumuse\u0163ea ta?<br \/>\nTeo Trandafir: \u00cen atitudine. \u015ei mai ales \u00een calm. Am descoperit c\u0103 urlatul \u015fi trasul de p\u0103r sunt posturi care nu m\u0103 definesc \u015fi \u00een care nu m\u0103 reg\u0103sesc sau pe care , dac\u0103 le practic, nu m\u0103 privesc cu bunavoin\u0163\u0103 dup\u0103 aceea. \u015ei atunci am hot\u0103r\u00e2t s\u0103 le elimin \u015fi s\u0103 \u00eenlocuiesc disper\u0103rile mele verbale \u015fi de atitudine , ie\u015firile \u00een d\u00e9cor, cu o sf\u00e2nt\u0103 t\u0103cere. Tac \u015fi z\u00e2mbesc \u00een momentul \u00een care m\u0103 consider nedrepta\u0163it\u0103 sau \u00een afara contextului meu obi\u015fnuit.<\/p>\n<p>\nReporter: \u00cen ce st\u0103 libertatea ta?<br \/>\nTeo Trandafir: \u00cen mine. Am descoperit, atunci c\u00e2nd nu puteam vorbi cu nimeni, de\u015fi g\u00e2ndeam ,dup\u0103 capul meu, oarecum normal , c\u0103 libertatea omului e \u00een sine , pentru c\u0103 dac\u0103 el a avut timpul \u015fi r\u0103gazul s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi construiasc\u0103 \u00een interiorul lui gr\u0103dina , se poate \u00eentoarce oric\u00e2nd acolo. \u00cen tine e\u015fti liber \u201cs\u0103 orice\u201d : e\u015fti liber s\u0103 g\u00e2nde\u015fti, e\u015fti liber s\u0103 creezi, e\u015fti liber s\u0103 exprimi, e\u015fti liber s\u0103 corectezi, e\u015fti liber s\u0103 revezi, s\u0103 reiei, e\u015fti liber s\u0103 fii foarte prost. E\u015fti liber s\u0103 fii at\u00e2t de de\u015ftept \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 po\u0163i exprima de\u015ftept\u0103ciunea ta astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t ea s\u0103 poat\u0103 fi \u00een\u0163eleas\u0103 \u015fi de pro\u015fti. Dar \u015fi de de\u015ftep\u0163i.<\/p>\n<p>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.mediafax.ro\/life-inedit\/interviu-cu-teo-trandafir-sentimentul-care-ma-defineste-si-ma-impinge-inainte-este-disperarea-oamenii-fericiti-isi-doresc-nefericirea-pentru-a-putea-intelege-fericirea-din-nou-17056791\">Cititi mai multe pe www.mediafax.ro<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Teo Trandafir a declarat, \u00eentr-un interviu acordat \u00een exclusivitate Gandul.info \u015fi Mediafax, referitor la valori, dar \u015fi la profesie, c\u0103: \u201cSentimentul care m\u0103 define\u015fte \u015fi m\u0103 \u00eempinge \u00eenainte este disperarea. \u2026care nu e neap\u0103rat un lucru de r\u0103u. E o presiune \u2026 care m\u0103 propulseaz\u0103 si \u00eemi d\u0103 putere\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[510],"tags":[10638,10236,32628,15404,21994,5429,7345,6266,16831],"class_list":["post-158486","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-actualitate","tag-acordare","tag-declaratie","tag-exclusivitate","tag-fericire","tag-gandul-info","tag-interviu","tag-mediafax","tag-oameni","tag-teo-trandafir"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/158486","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=158486"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/158486\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=158486"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=158486"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=158486"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}