\nBanii, ma\u015fina, bonele, casele mai mari, gr\u0103dini\u0163ele \u015fi \u015fcolile private, profesorii personali pot \u00eenlocui multe, dar nu rela\u0163ia cu copilul, sau copiii, \u00een cazul celor care au avut un curaj mai mare.<\/p>\n
\nSchimbarea rapid\u0103 a lumii \u00een care tr\u0103im, deschiderea \u015fi globalizarea, fa\u0163\u0103 de cum am tr\u0103it \u015fi am crescut noi, au schimbat \u015fi schimb\u0103 modul de interac\u0163iune \u00eentre corporati\u015fti \u015fi antreprenori \u015fi copiii lor.<\/p>\n
\nBile\u0163elele pe dulap sunt acum \u00eenlocuite cu mesajele pe WhatsApp.<\/p>\n
\nCopiii au de toate, nu tr\u0103iesc cu cheia la g\u00e2t, au bone 18\/24, au profesori de limbi str\u0103ine, lec\u0163ii de dans \u015fi balet. Dar nu au timpul p\u0103rin\u0163ilor lor.<\/p>\n
\nPentru c\u0103 determinarea \u015fi energia sunt depuse la job, jobul fiind chiar o sc\u0103pare, o u\u015furare, c\u00e2nd pleci de acas\u0103, la \u00eentoarcerea \u00een c\u0103min nu mai r\u0103m\u00e2ne dec\u00e2t o simpl\u0103 prezen\u0163\u0103, un simplu salut, \u015fi celebra \u00eentrebare: ce ai f\u0103cut ast\u0103zi?<\/p>\n
\nIar r\u0103spunsul copiilor se pierde undeva \u00een mintea plin\u0103 de cifre \u015fi de Powerpoint-uri a p\u0103rin\u0163ilor.<\/p>\n
\nPlecarea moldovenilor la munc\u0103 \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate \u00eencep\u00e2nd cu mijlocul anilor \u201990 \u015fi \u00eenceputul anilor 2000 a l\u0103sat \u00een urm\u0103 puternice drame familiale: copiii au r\u0103mas cu bunicii, cu unchii, cu veri\u015forii \u015fi cu vecinii din sat, iar rezultatele se v\u0103d acum.<\/p>\n
\n\u00cen cazul antreprenorilor, al celor care au avut curajul s\u0103-\u015fi fac\u0103 un business, al corporati\u015ftilor care au \u00eenceput s\u0103 prind\u0103 gustul unei cariere, ei nu sunt pleca\u0163i fizic de l\u00e2ng\u0103 copii, dar sunt absen\u0163i din rela\u0163ia cu copiii lor.<\/p>\n
\nBanii pot \u00eenlocui foarte multe lucruri, mai pu\u0163in absen\u0163a, \u00eent\u00e2i fizic\u0103 \u015fi apoi fizic\u0103 \u015fi emo\u0163ional\u0103.<\/p>\n
\n\u015etiu mul\u0163i p\u0103rin\u0163i \u00een cazul c\u0103rora banii, cariera \u015fi ob\u0163inerea unui statut nu mai sunt o problem\u0103, ci rela\u0163ia cu copiii lor: \u201dNu m\u0103 mai ascult\u0103 deloc\u201c, \u201dCe fac cu ei?\u201c, \u201dCe vor ajunge?\u201c, \u201dLe-am f\u0103cut \u015fi le-am dat de toate, dar nu m\u0103 mai \u00een\u0163eleg cu ei!\u201c, \u201dNu \u015ftiu ce vor!\u201c. Nicio logic\u0103 nu mai func\u0163ioneaz\u0103 \u015fi nicio explica\u0163ie ra\u0163ional\u0103 nu mai st\u0103 \u00een picioare \u00een discu\u0163iile cu copiii.<\/p>\n
\nPe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce copiii intr\u0103 \u00een adolescen\u0163\u0103, lucrurile se agraveaz\u0103. Dac\u0103 ai o \u015fans\u0103 mare, dac\u0103 \u201dai fost de multe ori la biseric\u0103 \u00eenainte\u201c, copiii nu-\u0163i vor face probleme mari la \u015fcoal\u0103. Dar celelalte probleme sunt prezente.<\/p>\n
\nToat\u0103 lumea vrea fericirea \u015fi \u00eemplinirea copiilor lor, dar ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 asta \u00een mod concret? La ce \u015fcoli s\u0103 se duc\u0103, care este voca\u0163ia lor, ce vor s\u0103 se fac\u0103, ce trebuie s\u0103 se fac\u0103 astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 c\u00e2\u015ftige mai bine? \u00eentreb\u0103ri f\u0103r\u0103 r\u0103spuns sau cu r\u0103spuns par\u0163ial.<\/p>\n
\n\u015ecoala \u015fi societatea rom\u00e2neasc\u0103 nu sunt voca\u0163ionale, dar mai ales p\u0103rin\u0163ii nu au curajul s\u0103-\u015fi \u00eenve\u0163e \u015fi s\u0103 lase copiii s\u0103-\u015fi urmeze voca\u0163ia, asta dac\u0103 \u015fi-o descoper\u0103 devreme.<\/p>\n
\nMihaela Haiduc, de la Premium Edu, spune c\u0103 op\u0163iunile copilului pentru viitor sunt influen\u0163ate acum de filme, de prieteni, de ce spun prietenii prietenilor \u015fi mai pu\u0163in de p\u0103rin\u0163i. Ca s\u0103-\u0163i determini copilul s\u0103 fac\u0103 ceva, mai bine vorbe\u015fti cu prietenii lui, c\u0103 ei sigur \u00eel vor convinge. \u00een plus, e important s\u0103 fi\u0163i aten\u0163i la ce seriale se uit\u0103 copiii \u015fi s\u0103 \u00eencerca\u0163i s\u0103 afla\u0163i cum sunt personajele de acolo.<\/p>\n
\nDac\u0103 ai ajuns un CEO, un CFO, un director executiv la o mare multina\u0163ional\u0103, cu jobul \u00eentr-un birou de sticl\u0103 \u015fi cu o privire de sus, vei dori acela\u015fi lucru \u015fi pentru copil.<\/p>\n
\nCu aceast\u0103 imagine \u00een minte, mul\u0163i p\u0103rin\u0163i, mai ales cei corporati\u015fti \u015fi antreprenori, nu sunt preg\u0103ti\u0163i s\u0103 accepte c\u0103 poate copiii lor vor s\u0103 fie buc\u0103tari, chefi, cum se spune acum, un job extrem de bine pl\u0103tit.<\/p>\n
\n\u00cen discu\u0163iile de complezen\u0163\u0103, c\u00e2nd cei de la mas\u0103 te \u00eentreab\u0103 ce fac copiii t\u0103i, este greu de acceptat acum s\u0103 r\u0103spunzi c\u0103 b\u0103iatul este buc\u0103tar, iar fata este la un ONG de protec\u0163ia mediului, c\u0103 se poart\u0103 acum. Nu prea merge acest r\u0103spuns.
\nDar aceasta este o descriere a unei situa\u0163ii din jurul nostru \u015fi al vostru. Nimeni nu are solu\u0163ii de rezolvare ca la un buget.
\n\u00een multina\u0163ionale sau la propriul businss, bugetele \u015fi \u0163intele de v\u00e2nz\u0103ri vin, se \u00eendeplinesc sau nu, dar pre\u0163ul pl\u0103tit este \u00een alt\u0103 parte.<\/p>\n
\nCe m\u0103 fac cu copilul meu? Nimeni nu \u015ftie, este o \u00eentrebare f\u0103r\u0103 r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Dincolo de targeturi, bugete, carier\u0103, schimbarea jobului, care p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103 pot fi gestionate, cea mai mare problem\u0103 a antreprenorilor \u015fi corporati\u015ftilor este cea a copiilor lor: ce fac cu ei, cum gestioneaz\u0103 rela\u0163ia cu ei \u015fi care este viitorul lor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[529],"tags":[255,82,74,33457,6553,553,15278,246,18076,275,10162,15179,13028,18608,33540,391,13343,464],"class_list":["post-155568","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-opinii","tag-antreprenori","tag-bani","tag-buget","tag-cadre-didactice","tag-cariera","tag-copii","tag-copil","tag-crestere","tag-gestionare","tag-inlocuire","tag-parinti","tag-prieteni","tag-problema","tag-raspuns","tag-relatie","tag-schimbare","tag-scoli","tag-viitor"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/155568","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=155568"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/155568\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":155574,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/155568\/revisions\/155574"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=155568"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=155568"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=155568"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}