{"id":153065,"date":"2017-10-05T09:50:00","date_gmt":"2017-10-05T09:50:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/?p=153065"},"modified":"2017-10-05T09:50:00","modified_gmt":"2017-10-05T09:50:00","slug":"care-sunt-sfaturile-psihoterapeutilor-pentru-parintii-care-au-copii-la-scoala-ce-nu-trebuie-sa-faca-acestia-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/?p=153065","title":{"rendered":"Care sunt sfaturile psihoterapeu\u0163ilor pentru p\u0103rin\u0163ii care au copii la \u015fcoal\u0103. Ce (nu) trebuie s\u0103 fac\u0103 ace\u015ftia"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n\u00cen general, un p\u0103rinte trebuie s\u0103 lase deoparte propriile traume sau visuri nerealizate \u015fi s\u0103 caute al\u0103turi de propriul copil drumul acestuia. S\u0103 \u0163in\u0103 cont de abilit\u0103\u0163ile lui native, s\u0103 nu \u00ee\u015fi pun\u0103 visele ne\u00eemplinte \u00een sarcina acestuia.<\/div>\n<div>\n&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div>\nDe obicei, atunci c\u00e2nd p\u0103rin\u0163ii se implic\u0103 \u00een educa\u0163ia propiilor copiii, ace\u015ftia fac fa\u0163\u0103 mai bine cerin\u0163elor profesorilor. Cu toate astea, totul are o limit\u0103.&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div>\n&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div>\n1. \u00cen primul r\u00e2nd. nu face\u0163i compara\u0163ii \u00eentre copilul dumneavoastr\u0103 \u015fi cei ai altui coleg, prieten, cunscut. Fiecare copil este unic, diferit, cu propiul stil de \u00eenv\u0103\u0163are \u015fi acumulare. Copilul \u00eencepe s\u0103 cread\u0103 c\u0103 al\u0163ii sunt mai buni dec\u00e2t el \u015fi c\u0103 el este incapabil s\u0103 se descurce bine sau s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 la a\u015ftept\u0103rile p\u0103rin\u0163ilor. Acest sentiment poate d\u0103una cre\u015fterii lui.<\/div>\n<div>\n&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div>\nDac\u0103 \u00eei spui micu\u0163ului t\u0103u c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 fie ca \u201dX\u201d \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu-\u0163i place a\u015fa cum este. Ai prefera s\u0103 fie ca \u015fi altcineva, ceea ce nu este \u00een concordan\u0163\u0103 cu dragostea necondi\u0163ionat\u0103 pe care ar trebui s\u0103 o oferi\u0163i. \u0162ine\u0163i minte c\u0103 nu sunte\u0163i copilul dumneavoastr\u0103, iar visele \u015fi aspira\u0163iile lui ar pot&nbsp; fi complet diferite de ale voastre. Apreciez\u0103-l pe copilul t\u0103u pentru cine este, nu pentru ceea ce dore\u015fti s\u0103 fie el.<\/div>\n<div>\n&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div>\n2. Nu impune\u0163i copilului propria nevoie de reu\u015fit\u0103. P\u0103rin\u0163ii care le cer copiilor s\u0103 se implice foarte mult \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103-\u015fi revan\u015feze propriile vise care au e\u015fuat \u015fi s\u0103-\u015fi rezolve propriile sentimente de regret \u015fi dezam\u0103gire. Unii p\u0103rin\u0163i \u00ee\u015fi v\u0103d copiii ca pe ni\u015fte extensii ale lor, nu ca ni\u015fte oameni de sine st\u0103t\u0103tori, cu propriile lor nevoi, dorin\u0163e, speran\u0163e \u015fi vise.<\/div>\n<div>\n&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div>\nAl\u0163i p\u0103rin\u0163i \u00ee\u015fi doresc \u015fi le impun copiilor s\u0103 urmeze aceea\u015fi carier\u0103 , \u00een ciuda faptului c\u0103 ace\u015ftia nu \u00ee\u015fi doresc sau nu au \u00eenclina\u0163ii spre acel domeniu. E de preferat&nbsp; s\u0103 \u00eei l\u0103sa\u0163i s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi g\u0103seasca singuri drumul pentru a deveni adul\u0163i, cu o stim\u0103 de sine ridicat\u0103 \u015fi un bun nivel de satisfac\u0163ie profesional\u0103.<\/div>\n<div>\n&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.csid.ro\/family\/crestere-copii\/ce-nu-trebuie-sa-faca-parintii-cand-e-vorba-de-scoala-copilului-sfaturile-psihoterapeutilor-16742809\/\">Cite\u015fte continuarea pe CSID.<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Psihoterapeu\u0163ii Dorina Stamate \u015fi Constantin Cornea explic\u0103 pentru CSID unde gre\u015fim \u00een educa\u0163ia copiilor no\u015ftri \u015fi care sunt sarcinile pe care ar trebui s\u0103 le evit\u0103m.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[510],"tags":[34953,553,15278,33048,20541,8219,10162,80,8871,3852],"class_list":["post-153065","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-actualitate","tag-abilitati","tag-copii","tag-copil","tag-csid","tag-drum","tag-educatie","tag-parinti","tag-refuz","tag-scoala","tag-sfaturi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/153065","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=153065"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/153065\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=153065"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=153065"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=153065"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}