\nDenise Restauri poveste\u015fte pentru Forbes o experien\u0163\u0103 de munc\u0103 care a marcat-o.<\/p>\n
\n“C\u00e2nd aveam 23 de ani ocupam func\u0163ia de sales manager la un hotel butique din Washington DC. Lucram pentru un tip foarte nepl\u0103cut, s\u0103-i zicem Toby”, \u00eencepe Denise povestea.<\/p>\n
\n“Avea un obicei prost s\u0103 ne spun\u0103 tot timpul c\u0103 nu ne merit\u0103m slujblele \u015fi c\u0103 el este responsabil pentru succesul nostru. Voiam s\u0103-mi dau demisia, dar am\u00e2nam momentul tot timpul. \u00centr-o zi Toby a crezut c\u0103 l-am tr\u0103dat. El era c\u0103s\u0103torit, dar avea o aventur\u0103 cu vicepre\u015fedinta departamentului de v\u00e2nz\u0103ri. Mai mult, patronul o pl\u0103cea \u015fi el pe ea a\u015fa c\u0103 s-a \u00eenfuriat c\u00e2nd a aflat c\u0103 Toby are o rela\u0163ie cu ea. Bine\u00een\u0163eles, Toby a crezut c\u0103 eu l-am p\u00e2r\u00e2t. Nu eram eu vinovat\u0103. Toby nu m-a \u00eentrebat, \u00een schimb a aruncat cu capsatorul \u00eenspre mine \u015fi era aproape s\u0103 m\u0103 loveasc\u0103 \u00een cap.<\/p>\n
\nAm fugit din \u00eenc\u0103pere direct spre parc. Acolo am v\u0103zut o femeie f\u0103r\u0103 ad\u0103post care mi-a z\u00e2mbit. Un z\u00e2mbet \u015ftirb. La momentul acela m-am g\u00e2ndit c\u0103 femeia asta are o via\u0163\u0103 mai bun\u0103 ca mine, ea nu este nevoit\u0103 s\u0103 lucreze cu Toby. Ea are libertatea pe care eu nu o am. Nu m-am g\u00e2ndit c\u0103 eu m\u0103car am un apartament \u015fi c\u0103 nu tr\u0103iesc pe str\u0103zi. Atunci mi-am dat seama c\u0103 mi-am permis s\u0103 devin victima unui om nebun. Mi-am dat demisia. Nu aveam economii, o slujb\u0103 sau vreun plan. Dar eram liber\u0103”, m\u0103rturise\u015fte Denise Restauri.<\/p>\n
\n“Ce am \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at este c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd \u00eei permi\u0163i unei persoane s\u0103-\u0163i ia stima de sine \u00eei dai \u015fi puterea ta de a fi liber. C\u00e2nd lucrurile sunt rele – plan personal sau profesional, trebuie s\u0103 mergi mai departe azi, s\u0103 nu am\u00e2ni lucrurile. Comportamentul abuziv nu este numai acela c\u00e2nd cineva te agreseaz\u0103 fizic (c\u00e2nd cineva arunc\u0103 cu un capsator spre tine). \u00cenainte a face asta Toby m\u0103 abuza verbal \u015fi emo\u0163ional. Au existat semne de avertizare, dar nu le-am acordat aten\u0163ie pentru c\u0103 asta \u00eensemna c\u0103 ar fi trebuit s\u0103-l \u00eenfrunt”, \u00eencheie confesiunea Denise Restauri.
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Denise Restauri poveste\u015fte pentru Forbes o experien\u0163\u0103 de munc\u0103 care a marcat-o. “C\u00e2nd aveam 23 de ani ocupam func\u0163ia de sales manager la un hotel butique din Washington DC. Lucram pentru un tip foarte nepl\u0103cut, s\u0103-i zicem Toby”, \u00eencepe Denise povestea. “Avea un obicei prost s\u0103 ne spun\u0103 tot timpul c\u0103 nu ne merit\u0103m slujblele […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3834],"tags":[31859,33081,12777,7377,10907,195,6915,9260,448,4902,274,6064,7606,12671,80,4466,19707,14378],"class_list":["post-141402","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-lifestyle","tag-aruncare","tag-aventura","tag-casatorie","tag-demisie","tag-departament","tag-experienta","tag-femeie","tag-forbes","tag-functie","tag-hotel","tag-incepere","tag-manager","tag-munca","tag-patron","tag-refuz","tag-sef","tag-timp","tag-washington"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/141402","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=141402"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/141402\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=141402"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=141402"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=141402"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}