\nFelul \u00een care vorbe\u015fti influen\u0163eaz\u0103 modul \u00een care oamenii te privesc. S\u0103 \u00eenlocuie\u015fti un cuv\u00e2ntul cu un altul ar putea fi factorul care s\u0103 te ajute s\u0103-\u0163i atingi obiectivul profesional sau personal, potrivit lui Bernard Roth, profesor la Stanford, informeaz\u0103 Business Insider.<\/p>\n
\n\u00cen cartea sa, \u201eThe Achievement Habit\u201d, Roth sugereaz\u0103 c\u00e2teva schimb\u0103ri necesare pentru a avea mai mult succes.<\/p>\n
\n1. \u00cenlocuie\u015fte \u201edar\u201d cu \u201e\u015fi\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n \n\u201eVreau s\u0103 merg la film, dar am treab\u0103 de f\u0103cut\u201d trebuie \u00eenlocuit cu \u201e Vreau s\u0103 merg la film \u015fi am treab\u0103 de f\u0103cut\u201d. Utilizarea cuv\u00e2ntului \u201edar\u201d duce la crearea unui conflict (\u015fi c\u00e2teodat\u0103 a unui motiv) care de fapt nu exist\u0103. Este posibil s\u0103 mergi la film \u015fi s\u0103 rezolvi treaba, doar trebuie s\u0103 g\u0103se\u015fti o solu\u0163ie.<\/p>\n \n\u00cen plus, atunci c\u00e2nd folose\u015fti cuv\u00e2ntul \u201e\u015fi\u201d \u201ecreierul t\u0103u ia \u00een considerare cum poate jongla cu cele dou\u0103 p\u0103r\u0163i ale problemei\u201d. Poate o s\u0103 vezi un film mai scurt, poate o s\u0103 delegi o parte din munc\u0103.<\/p>\n \n2. \u00cenlocuie\u015fte \u201etrebuie s\u0103\u201d cu \u201evreau s\u0103\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n \nData viitoare c\u00e2nd te g\u00e2nde\u015fti c\u0103 \u201etrebuie s\u0103\u201d faci ceva \u00eenlocuie\u015fte acea expresie cu \u201evreau s\u0103\u201d fac ceva. \u201eEste un exerci\u0163iu foarte eficient \u00een a le ar\u0103ta oamenilor ce fac cu vie\u0163ile lor. Chiar \u015fi lucrurile nepl\u0103cute sunt de fapt alegeri f\u0103cute de individ\u201d, spune Roth.<\/p>\n \nUn student de-al lui Roth sim\u0163ea c\u0103 este nevoit s\u0103 urmeze cursurile de matematic\u0103 pentru a absolvi de\u015fi ura cursul respectiv. Dup\u0103 ce a f\u0103cut exerci\u0163iul de mai sus \u015fi-a dat seama c\u0103 el chiar voia s\u0103 urmeze acel curs de matematic\u0103 deoarece beneficiul pe care-l aducea completarea acestuia era mai mare dec\u00e2t disconfortul pe care \u00eel sim\u0163ea \u00een timpul cursului.<\/p>\n \nAstfel o persoan\u0103 ar putea realiza c\u0103 nu toate problemele nu au solu\u0163ii \u015fi c\u0103 un individ are mai mult control asupra vie\u0163ii sale dec\u00e2t ar fi crezut.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Felul \u00een care vorbe\u015fti influen\u0163eaz\u0103 modul \u00een care oamenii te privesc. S\u0103 \u00eenlocuie\u015fti un cuv\u00e2ntul cu un altul ar putea fi factorul care s\u0103 te ajute s\u0103-\u0163i atingi obiectivul profesional sau personal, potrivit lui Bernard Roth, profesor la Stanford, informeaz\u0103 Business Insider. \u00cen cartea sa, \u201eThe Achievement Habit\u201d, Roth sugereaz\u0103 c\u00e2teva schimb\u0103ri necesare pentru a […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[510],"tags":[33141,235,7193,356,10720,31843,46,32965,275,6266,5843,6556,16545,10210],"class_list":["post-131244","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-actualitate","tag-ajutare","tag-business","tag-carte","tag-discurs","tag-eliminare","tag-exercitiu","tag-film","tag-influentare","tag-inlocuire","tag-oameni","tag-obiectiv","tag-personal","tag-profesor","tag-succes"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/131244","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=131244"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/131244\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=131244"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=131244"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bm.dev.synology.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=131244"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}